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I Miss My Ex Boyfriend

One of the things that many women say after a break up is “I miss my ex boyfriend.” I’ve said it and many of my female friends have as well. When we’ve been in a relationship it’s natural to miss that person once things end. However, for some women the longing goes much deeper than simply missing the companionship. They truly love their ex boyfriends and feel that they are missing their one chance at true love. If you feel this way, it’s worth the effort to try and win him back.

You don’t want to call up his family or close friends and say “I miss my ex boyfriend.” Even though you may be very close with them, involving them, in any way, in your relationship will backfire. Men are fairly private and to them relationship issues need to stay between the two of you. If you talk to mutual friends about the problems you two have been having, he’ll hear about it and he’ll resent you for it. If you must share your feelings do it in a journal or with someone who doesn’t even know who your ex is. This will save you a great deal of grief in the long run and will show him that you can be trusted to keep private matters quiet.

If you have said to yourself that I miss my ex boyfriend you already know that a large part of what you’re feeling is loss. It’s difficult to end all communication with the person you adore most, but in order to get him back, that is exactly what you need to do. You may feel an urge to either call him or email him to try and clear the air. If you do this you may actually damage the relationship beyond repair. The reason is that in the heat of the moment, when your emotions are running high, you are bound to say things that will come across as desperate. Men are attracted to strong, emotionally stable women. If you appear as though you can’t live without him, he’ll label you as too dependent. Give him some space after the split. You’ll be glad you did. He’ll begin to miss you and the distance will make him feel drawn to you again. In the case of broken relationships, absence does indeed make the heart grow fonder.

Getting your ex boyfriend back is possible. If you are tired of worrying about a future without him and if you are at a loss about what to do to get him back, there is help. Every move you make and everything you say to him after your break up will either get you a second chance or will ensure he’s gone for good. Why risk making a mistake that may cost you a future with the man you love most in the world?

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  3. Bree says:

    My ex and I broke up 2 months ago today. We dated for over 2 years.
    In our first year, he was unfaithful to me, but I decided to stay with him. He truly meant so much to me and I saw so much potential in him. He proved me right, when we were together, in our last year, he was so amazing to me, constant love, affection, care, everything a girl could dream of. But what he did to me in our first year, I never fully forgave him. What he did to me were still open wounds, causing me silent pain, which I thought I had gotten over. And although I knew he had become faithful and loyal to me, I stuffed up. I didn’t want to admit how amazing he was. I took his loving actions towards me as controlive and possessive. I felt like he thought that because I had forgiven him about something so big, he owned me. I was scared to be with him all the time, because he would say things that would remind me of things he said when he was unfaithful, although I knew he was being genuine.

    I was so wrong. I miss him so much.

    I broke up with him because I needed some independence and some time to figure out what I was truly feeling. And now I realise how much I was in the wrong. I took what he did for me for advantage and abused his sweet pure love for me. He made a mistake. I do forgive him for it now that I have separated with him. But now I’m 98% sure I want him back.

    He’s alreading seeing this new girl and it absolutely broke my heart when he told me. I’m 19 years old and he is 21. I’m a smart, responsible girl. Quite mature for my age. I don’t do drama, I don’t do gossip. I am realistic. I’m not one to depend my life and happiness on another, but he made me feel more than I think anyone else could make me feel. Am I inlove? What do I do? Please help me!

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  5. Paris says:

    Imiss my ex alot he was so silly and we had the same personalities we genteally cared about eachother we were talking for a couple months and he wnated to get with me but i was in a relationship and than he got in a relationship and we lost touch for awhile. The funny thing is when he broke up with hoa girl hw came back to me we started talking again i was still with my bf but i went on a date woth him evwrything felt so right and the next day out of no where.my bf broke up with me but i was happy he was so controlive ididnt know how to get out. And than me and thiz guy started datring we were almost togather for a month when he broke up with me. Imiss him so much amd i reamber the hurt in his eyes i knew he didnt want to and i know no mayter how cools hes acting he misses me i just wish i knew for sure that he did weve been broken up for 3 days and i want nothing more than to repair what we had b4 its too late. I wish i could rell him everything i feel.right.now make one attempt to get him back and than if that dosent work…move on for good. Buw how do i get out of my pride to do that. #scared of rejection. Help.

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  7. Rachel says:

    Well if its not getting in touch immediately after a break-up that helps, then what will? I’m so at a loss…I miss everything about my relationship. Every single moment. I dunno if he misses me…its been 16 days since we broke up. He sent me a very short email last week, wishing me “good luck” (for my exams). I didn’t reply cuz I was so cut up about the way he was so cool about our break-up, while I was crying. We haven’t spoken though, nor has he texted. I haven’t gotten in touch with him either…but I do miss him. Is there any hope he may begin to miss me and want to get me back?

    • Anonymous says:

      Rachel, I’m in your shoes. But for me, it’s been two days over a year, and the sores are still there.

      Keep pressing on, being the person you’d want to be in a relationship with. Treat your Ex with utmost respect. That means staying silent until he wants to talk to you. And though you may doubt it, I’m sure he misses you more than you know. Though my Ex and I have been apart for over a year now, it has only been 2-3 months that we have had no contact. We planned on getting back together, but now I’m not so sure. I don’t know if/how much he misses me, or if there’s any hope. That glimmer of hope is still in me though. It’s what keeps me going, even though I’m trying to move on with life for the time being and let things happen in their own time. So yes, there’s hope. If you want to talk or anything, hit me up. It’d help me too to have someone to talk to that is in the same state as I am!

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